You are taking it seriously that I am mean to my wife because you want to. Otherwise I dont have you down for being that thick.

Oddbobjob was the poster telling all and sundry about his private marital issues by posting online. You are PhD teacher, not OBJ.

You have posted:

"Personally I think that you and others on the site will be remembered for your sterling work advising FTs to not get sucked in by Chinese women and your making us all aware of pink rooms as a cheaper alternative to marriage. Well done for all your help."

The 'you' you were referring to was Silverboy.

OBJ chose to ignore my earlier criticism of him posting about his private negative marital issues. He didn't comment at all! Then he posted more of the same. If it's all been a lot of crap he's posted about those issues, it's been a joke in terribly bad taste and not even befitting of a working-class manual worker from Geordieland, never mind an educated Englishman from East Anglia.

And now, you, of all people wish to put words into my mouth. You're a joker too. You have a Chinese wife too, do you? I can't recall you ever doing the same as OBJ, ie complaining in detail about your Chinese wife and her family online. Yet you advocate pink rooms!

If I think someone is posting crap that is meant to be a joke, but in bad taste, you can bet your bottom dollar that I'll play thick in order to annoy him/her, in the hope that the jokes in bad taste will cease. Said jokes are composed by trolls.

IMO, your post replying to mine, read in conjunction with your reply to Silverboy's post put you in a bad light!