May I ask: what is a feminist for you?

Of course, you may!

To me, a 'feminist' is a woman who fights to be treated as equally as a man. Back in the 1960's there was this 'thing' known as 'women's lib' that came about simply because certain women were fed up with being told they are subservient to men. I have no problem with that!
In fact, I wholeheartedly agree that women and men should be equal.

If you look at the picture of a 1950's advertisement, below, then you can hardly blame women for stepping-up and refusing to be treated like this. Those who refuse to be treated like this picture depicts, are 'feminists' as far as my definition is concerned.

It's the 'feminazis' who are dangerous. The spikey-haired lesbians who think that the world owes them a living, or women who only want to be treated 'equal' when it suits THEM. These women, in my opinion, are not TRUE to the definition of 'feminist'.