"You cannot move without someone spying on you, waiting for you to do something 'wrong' so they have an excuse to fine you." Not like that in America.

Sorry to read about the "suicide" police reports. Not only they enable criminality but they leave the families of the "suicideds" to feel horrible for decades: Imagine the father and mother of a 22 year old that got "suicided". They are not yet 50, they still have many decades to live. They will fly to Bangkok and then wherever in the country, trying to find the truth. It is in nobody's interest to help them. They will return home....