Once again your bitterness seems to have overwhelmed you. Why would I "stick up" for Chinese women, as Yu put it?

I had dinner with a couple of young teaching assistants who are both shitting themselves about going back to their hometowns this spring festival. So what's your problem?

This morning I received a wechat message, from a woman I haven't spoken to in months, wishing me happy Chinese New Year and asking for a Hong bao. I didn't reply, I just deleted her wechat contact.

Stop judging everyone the same, they're not !