Yes, well, we should be careful about insulting Gays

Neither Putin nor Tillerson are gay. Violent sexual assault, even of the anal variety, is certainly not limited to gay men. Statistics tell us that women are much more likely to be the victims of sexual assault, almost always, of course, perpetrated by men.

Men are, however, much more sensitive and disturbed by the idea of themselves being sexually assaulted.

This gender sensitivity is the target of my post, not the consensual expression of sexual intimacy between members of the same sex.