That is your opinion Fifi. Many men with wife and kid severely regret being in that situation. I know more than a few.

I'm just saying to unhappy men in that situation there are alternatives. They don't need to waste their life. They can be happy. I am trying to start a new ex-China ex-pat group in Pattaya, about ten members. I've recently tried convince a long term Aussie in Nanning to make the switch.

He said "if things don't work out for me with ( edited by me ) I will be there. Well, she has already taken him for 130,000 AUD, I'd say "things are not working out".

Lucky for him he still has about 650,000 left. Some blokes lose everything.