I'm a new reader, but a foreign teacher in Asia who has had to visit a red light district for
the first time to relieve my sexual frustration. That has been a consequence of my
inability to get laid as it's been impossible for me to have developed a normal
relationship with any native woman of repute, not for the want of trying! I've tried my
socks off, but no good result!

Would you please publish your email so I can contact you (= SILVERBOY) for advice?

I assume your moniker means you feel embarrassed by your sexual encounter in a red light district! Don't let that get to you morally. The flesh is weak, and all that. You needn't blame yourself.

What kind of advice do you require? Maybe I can help.