Overall, I see plenty of your "suggestions" on the board as they are everywhere.
You "empathize" so well when, for instance, telling others that if the taxi
service is rude, buy a scooter. And, I love your "suggestsion for others to improve
their English too. Oh, sorry that wasn't you; that was another you.

I have no empathy for your paranoia and your victim complex. It would benefit you to recognize that these are not healthy emotions and to speak to a professional.

I do have sympathy for your family. Perhaps there inability to share hotel lodging with you in China is to their benefit.