There are hundreds, thousands of similar stories like that one. It is very sad. I feel sorry for your brother.

Yes, he worked hard for so long and look what happened. It is really an outrage. Yes, I have heard in the USA that some women have even been able to get access to to future pensions after divorce.

I will tell you how I came across this MGTOW stuff: I was searching online about Bangkok and Pattaya and by accident I came across this Australian guy from Brisbane (my home city ) who spends a lot of time in Thailand ( mostly Bangkok ) and Vietnam and he also did videos on Hong Kong and Singapore. He posts on You Tube.

He is a crude guy, lots of filthy and vulgar language, but his videos are really just commonsense, wise, and also the way he speaks is quite hilarious. His name on You Tube is "Archie Luxury" and he has quite a following on You Tube, not just in Australia but also in the USA.

What you said happened to your brother is exactly the thing he talks about on his videos. His videos should be compulsory viewing for all young white men in the USA, Australia, Canada, UK, and New Zealand. He gives examples of men who have been financially and emotionally devastated, not just in Australia but also in the USA.

If you marry in a Western country 2017 you can easily lose EVERYTHING you will have worked so hard for in the not so distant future, just like many men have in the recent past.

If you have kids you are really in the shit.

Some of the stories about what happens to Western men in their forties and fifties is disturbing indeed! In one video he also talks about how the West is "fucked" for men over 50 and how these men should move to SE-Asia. He also talks about paying bar girls to be a short term GF's for one or two months. Once again, great advice!

In another video he talks about the astronomical cost of living in Brisbane and other Australian cities. You could extrapolate to many US and UK cities also.

All in all, this bloke really fucking knows knows what he's talking about!