Making plans for your daughter is good and necessary.

Finding the meaning of your own life, of the main events that took place and how you dealt with them, and what you learned from them, is of a

I know what you mean but my job now is to get well and be around for my family. And come to terms with not being able to crack open a bottle of red on a Friday night. Over and above that and in spite of being a tad eccentric I am pretty well adjusted. I don't bottle things up and so unlikely to get too depressed. But we'll see.

Thanks for the good advice, Arthur, it's much appreciated. And thanks Fifi too....and Trumpsey.