The Chinese always seem great right before they screw you over in some way. Always be on the lookout, and be wary. It's usually those who are most kind to you here who will give you the worst time of it. Someone "seeming" great online is absolutely no indicator whatsoever of how they will be in real life. Nor does it have anything to do with how you'll be treated when theirs real money on the line. Not here in CHina anyhow. Trust me on this.