Hi there my little Chinese friend;

My name is Ozzie and I disagree with the way Chinese students are forced to learn. There are better ways to learn and it is not just through books. The use of one's mind to it's full potential is not being taught in Chinese schools. I encourage my students to use all their mind not just 2 to 5%.
In regards to your parents, yes you should respect them but not everything they say is correct. I myself am a parent, I have learnt a lot from my son and your parents can also learn a lot if your views are justified.
As the great genious Albert Einstein quoted! 'To raise new questions, new possibilities, to regard old problems from a new angle, requires creative imagination and makes real advances in learning. There comes a time when the mind takes a higher plane of knowledge, but we can never prove how it got there'.
So my message is simply this! Open your mind and use it the way it should be used, then you will see a better way of learning.
Your friend
Ozzie