You have yet to truly offend me on a large scale. [edited]. I have shown plenty of tolerance for the likes of you who have no sympathy for other expat teachers that have had bad situations happen to them. I have even thought that if we had actually met years earlier under different circumstances that I might have clung on to the ideal reality that I had of china because of people like you being around me. But I think moving on and changing was definitely for the better. We will all go through more things and hopefully one day you will look back on your experiences with others and learn from them. Of course that is completely up to you.