And as for that nonsense about Chinese girls being "traditional" it might surprise her to know very few are virgins, some even having sex at middle school age...

You are right, San Migs. When I was in a Chinese school, the school doctor complained to me about the noise two high school students made one night (school had already been dismissed) in a classroom adjacent to the school clinic. I counselled the two students who looked sheepish. This thing is also prevalent in vocational schools, universities and colleges so much so someone set up a website promoting premarital virginity. Of course the website has sparked an online storm.