I'd have a job and survive in Canada. My option is based on my wife that's a local who has sisters and an ailing mother, and my son (born in China). I really don't think it is necessary to get into details about my reasons here, is it?

Sorry, just curious. I just recall your past fears and troubles, but yes, you are right, not necessary to go into details.

Cheers and beers to answering on:)