If you were to approach a Native Chinese girl under the fingers of some rich/powerful/influential local Chinese man and was made a mistress and you tried to persuade her to change her mind and get herself some self respect, how would you react if she said, "Guan Ni Pi Shi" (none of your f&^£ing business). Try to talk to the local Chinese about this issue and when they respond with "Mei Ban Fa", then what do you do? Sometimes being able to make bad free choices can seem painful to outsiders, but you cannot change the local people, period.

Your argument failed the "pedophile litmus test" because the same argument could be used to justify pedophilia. I've told you about this flaw in your logic already. It's like saying, "go tell the slave that doesn't want to be freed that he should be free and then what will you do when he tells you to F@^# off?"

Your argument presupposes a victim who is happy with the circumstances, thus automatically absolving the culprit of any responsibility.

Why don't you go tell someone student who nearly excepted being raped by a foreign teacher that she should NOT worry about her self-respect and dignity. Then ask yourself how you would feel when she says "cao ni ma!"?

Derp!