Maybe you can help me on something. I spoke to a man who recently had a baby. He told me with no joy n his words that he had a son. That floored me since most men prefer a son. I asked him why. He told me that boys are expensive since now he has to save up for his son's education, wedding, and house. He wanted a girl so he could save the money. He has businesses, if that adds anything to the conversation. Did I witness a new trend, or a flux in the Chinese matrix?