The thing about ESL is, you will find some rather unethical folks who will go out of their way to slander those who expected to be treated well in the first place. Some people will even try and play devil's advocate so they can perhaps "fish" more personal information out of you and try to twist it so it can be used to defame your character. Of course, sometimes these "brave" souls will only post the deviling and defaming under different aliases. Maybe they're preparing a Chinglish lesson on how to be a "spy". Lol.