If they think a guy is handsome/funny, they will have sex with him for free.

I don't believe you have much idea how decent women think, Silverboy. Do you get to meet any decent Chinese women? Do you try and talk to strange women, or do you need the scene set in some smoky bar? Do you approach women in the park-at a bus stop and strike up a conversation? How should you speak to a woman? Well just try and speak to her like you would a man-speak to a woman like she is a person. You are doing some things wrong, Silverby-you must be.