The disturbing thing about what the davulhyme person said was that he thinks it may be okay for expat teachers to "like young boys". Apparently, putting this on an equal plane with not finding a girlfriend or not being able to work anywhere else but China is okay with some folks who post on here. I think I won't eat lunch now after reading that kind of tripe.

Excuse me, please, but he never said that at all- he never indicated in any way that he thought that type of behaviour was all-right. He did make us think (some of us) that certain problems may be connected; and with some, one thing might lead to a dreadful other. The message I got was that an FT should have a girlfriend or wife, and should change his attitude if he can't get one.

We should listen to Settlement Tank Poster, he speaks a lot of sense.