No good foreigner would 'teach' anyone that gay and lesbian sex or premarital sex is somehow an 'equally valid choice' and quite seriously you are the raging fundamentalist zealot who wants to convert Chinese to your left-wing atheistic fundy religion. Christianity and it's principles and values square with traditional Chinese values. Surprisingly close in so many ways. This is one of the reasons large growing Christian churches (who need no foreign 'missionaries' and are themselves missionaries in the West) but this is why they are increasingly well-tolerated by the Chinese government. What we could use is less nefarious left-wing atheist anti-conservative westerners sneaking in and trying to pervert the minds of Chinese students with their old Western 'back to romantic Rome' gay, atheistic left-wing zealous hate-fueled narrow-minded religious beliefs. Besides, it's not the 1980s anymore.