Listen...

Everybody has their talent.

For some, learning a language isn't one of them.

There is no law that states "if you're married to a Chinese" then you can be arrogant and not need to learn the language.

I learn slowly as I have a lot of other things going on.

Don't judge too much because it reveals a character flaw inside yourself.

But you're undetected so why does it matter to anyone but yourself anyway?