Silverboy, respectfully, I ran both those images through google images upload and search feature, they could not be found anywhere except on here.

How do you know the OP does not have a wife and child, it is quite possible. I know of a kiwi in his 20's in Hong Kong who is a kindergarten teacher who has hong kong wife and child. You do not always "need" to be rich, not if her family is in the money, meeting and marrying the right girl can be a life changer for a guy who was poor in australia or nz or the UK, not that the guy I know is poor, he has lived on his own since 20 and was always independent in new zealand, and is the same here. I dare say it is about attitude and will, you have to have the right attitude to get a girlfriend and then a strong will to keep the marriage together.

good luck for guangxi or whereever.