And how strange of you to equate a lazy teacher with someone who does not like kids.

I suppose you think that it was ok that a so called british "friend" (frenemy would be a better description now!) thought it was ok to ask me to dress up as santa claus for free on christmas day for his training centre, despite it being the first time we met in person?! Is it any wonder "laowai" keep to themselves in China. [edited]