Not using a VPN at all, so not quite sure where you got that one from.

If you want to settle this like men, meet me in person. [edited]. And that stuff about your job email in Shandong, I was able to get good jobs in China and the Middle East by myself, it is not hard to search the net and email and apply. Many jobs in Saudi Arabia a BA is good enough, and it pays more than China ever does....but unlike you (and I maybe wrong, I hope I am) I do not judge a person by their financial value. Having a chinese wife does change foreigners, it seems to be true........

Good luck ace...