No, that thought is yours. It is so very much yours.

Truth is, it is the Chinese themselves (and probably just about all other Asian peoples save for Japanese) who believe/deeply fear that Europeans/caucasians are superior, and they project that onto us, because it is much to difficult for them to examine the contents of their own psyches.

Sorry but this is true. For your own sake-- TRY to contemplate this >>>> We are educated and socially conditioned to think in more complex terms than such static concepts as superior/inferior. We do not use those labels as much as you do, because we know they are both not useful and not accurate. Stop projecting. Look at yourself.

seems that your girlfriend tried one of those laowais only to never come back.

that is the problem and all their suffering.