Boyo. There was no 'significance' other than the fact I didn't want people to assume the 'friend' that I was referring to was a mere acquaintance, or even worse, a 'he-said-she-said' scenario.

As for the apology, well I guess hell will freeze over first. Women NEVER apologise because they think it's a sign of weakness. As for being 'uncaring', perhaps certain 'pots' should look in the mirror before they start calling the kettle 'black'.