I know some blokes still in China who are only there because they married a Chinese woman and
had a kid with her. I know one bloke ( spoken about him on here before ) who hates his
wife with a passion but only stays in China for the sake of his five year old kid. Any
chance he can get he is in Pattaya. He says that Chinese people are "boring,
dishonest and stupid" and he can't stand them. To a Chinese a good night out is
playing cards in some rip-off and pretentious tea shop.

Most Chinese women hate their husbands with a passion anyway. He's just a 'sperm donor', a 'provider of DNA'. Once she's got the kid, he can do whatever he likes with whoever he chooses. As long as he doesn't bring 'shame' on the family, she doesn't care at all.
She's got the house; the car; the bank account; and the kid. Her life is fulfilled!