I nearly witnessed a fist fight at an ex-pat bar one night in 2013 when one ex-pat boasted
that his wife "really loves him".

Of course, she really loves him !
She demonstrates that love twice a year.

First on his birthday when she gives him a two-fingered hand job, and second on their wedding anniversary when she allows him to catch a fleeting glimpse of her ass. True love, Chinese style, lol.