Arthur, my meaning is that most heterosexual men are more disturbed about being personally sexually assaulted by a man than by the idea of a woman being sexually assaulted by a man.

I have no ability, nor right, to characterize the feelings of gay men or woman.

After participating in a number of heterosexual relationships, I feel I have some standing to comment on what heterosexual men feel.

Yes, well, we should be careful about insulting Gays

Neither Putin nor Tillerson are gay. Violent sexual assault, even of the anal variety, is certainly not limited to gay men. Statistics tell us that women are much more likely to be the victims of sexual assault, almost always, of course, perpetrated by men.

Men are, however, much more sensitive and disturbed by the idea of themselves being sexually assaulted.

This gender sensitivity is the target of my post, not the consensual expression of sexual intimacy between members of the same sex.

haha-sussed it out eventually. I'm bound to say that I have never understood or found sex
jokes amusing, so it was wasted on me. Nothing against the joke mind-just not my thing

And I must confess to being all too amused by the idea of men abusing each other in scatological detail.
Not my finest quality, of which I already have too few.

nternal :o)

Uh-Ho! What does the ':o) mean-some sort of office error? Coffee spill on desk? I warn you, I am a bit of a Sherlock Holmes.

Silly me, hardly holmes-like- more smut-like. Funny I'm sure but I didn't see it all day. I only learned what 'Bromance' means recently, but thought it was non-penetration?

:o) is a secret code.
Some people know...

internal :o)