The middle fingerprint of Doctor Turnjakunen who's got fake degrees in so many field

I can tell you have an entitlement mentality. I also suspect that you are another ex-pat being ripped off by a Chinese wife.

Stop whining, you can do something about it. Just divorce your wife, tell her to fuck off. Grow some balls!

I can tell you have an entitlement mentality. I also suspect that you are another ex-pat being ripped off by a Chinese wife.

Stop whining, you can do something about it. Just divorce your wife, tell her to fuck off. Grow some balls!

I doubt this FT in PRC poster is Turnoi. The problem is that you are whining about something that you have zero control over.
On top of that I feel that you have an entitlement mentality due to having a Chinese wife and kids with her.

You will not be treated differently to any other foreigner in China and you should not be.

Move to a place where the law is much less restrictive than China if you want to be more happy and content. Otherwise just accept what you can't change.

What's that old phrase "you made your bed and now you gotta lie in it" or words to that effect?

Having a wife in China is not so much a problem, you can divorce. With kids it is a lot more difficult.

Live and learn.

I think it IS a form of discrimination. A foreigner should be allowed to stay wherever they
like, unless in a sensitive military area etc, and that rule would apply in many
countries.

Regulations that control the behavior of non-citizens in a nation are legislated by the government. If Trump decides that non-citizens with visas from various countries are not able to enter the U.S. or are afforded increased scrutiny as they enter, is that discrimination? Our 9th circuit court is trying to answer that question now and likely the Supreme Court will have to face it soon.

All regulations that are applied to visa holders and are not applicable to citizens are discriminatory in the broadest sense of the term.

What foreigners are allowed to do in any country is legally the province of that nation. I'm surprised to hear you argue against this precept of nationalism. Australia has 'discriminated' against immigrants throughout its modern history and you have championed those efforts.

Making Caring shell out an extra 80rmb each night to shelter his wife and child in a better quality hotel is a discriminatory regulation. Apartheid it aint.
He is free to leave China at any time. His emotionally wrought financial and legal concerns about parenting and spousal support should have been addressed long ago, prior to nuptials and conception.

Good to know what your views about the real foreign teachers and their families in China are. Now, who are you? Are you Turnoi or Dr Turnjakunen or Doctor T or who knows who else that pollutes the board so much?

I have no empathy for your paranoia and your victim complex.It would benefit you to recognize that these are not healthy emotions and to speak to a professional.

I do have sympathy for your family. Perhaps there inability to share hotel lodging with you
in China is to their benefit.

Overall, I see plenty of your "suggestions" on the board as they are everywhere.
You "empathize" so well when, for instance, telling others that if the taxi
service is rude, buy a scooter. And, I love your "suggestsion for others to improve
their English too. Oh, sorry that wasn't you; that was another you.

I have no empathy for your paranoia and your victim complex. It would benefit you to recognize that these are not healthy emotions and to speak to a professional.

I do have sympathy for your family. Perhaps there inability to share hotel lodging with you in China is to their benefit.

Value? Chinese hotels discriminate against foreigners. FTinPRC does "provide information
on this site".

I have difficulty understanding your point. Just like Silverboy, I have never had difficulty checking into any 4 or 5 star hotel in China. I routinely feel that I receive better and more prompt service than the Chinese guests checking in or out at the same time as I am.

I have no experience regarding service at hostels and inexpensive hotels, other than to explain, as I have, that many of these are not permitted by the government to register holders of foreign passports.

I understand that you see that as a form of discrimination.

I do not.

Value? Chinese hotels discriminate against foreigners. FTinPRC does "provide information on this site".

If you are referring to other posters, I do provide information on this site when I believe that it is correct and of some value.

I would suggest that empathy includes recognizing the material needs of others; food, housing, education, healthcare and the like.

I see your point that empathy does include sympathy for physical and emotional pain, the common human emotions that occur when we suffer material and familial loss.

But many emotional needs are not universal: the need for acknowledgement, for group acceptance, for fame, for apology, for vengeance, for violence, for wealth, for power, for sexual dominance or submission.

And many other emotions are pure neurosis: paranoia, delusions, many phobias, etc.

Affective disorders often exhibit in the projection of unhealthy emotional needs as 'universal' human emotional attributes.

At least, that's how I remember the construct.

This is about addressing/understanding concerns of posters, so I guess "good luck"
to us when your multiple personality expresses himself/themself.

Us? You may recognize in yourself the desire for the concern and understanding of other posters. Projecting one's own emotional needs on other individuals is characteristic of affective disorders.

Perhaps your 'us' refers to your family, not other posters. I do have sympathy for your family, but expressing the nature of this sympathy will not likely console you.

If you are referring to other posters, I do provide information on this site when I believe that it is correct and of some value.

Perhaps other posters will respond emotionally to your need for inexpensive lodging and online tea-and-sympathy.

What I don't understand is why people want to live in countries where they are actively discriminated against and not wanted.

You are wrong, a system of control is never a good thing in any society. I am so glad I moved out of shitty China and many others are leaving.

I've just convinced two more China ex-pats to leave, they have booked tickets to Bangkok already, one on June 17, another on June 24.

This is about addressing/understanding concerns of posters, so I guess "good luck" to us when your multiple personality expresses himself/themself.

I do not expect people to adequately address or understand my concerns. Good luck with that expectation.

Chinese authorities thrive to preserve local culture rather than keep foreigners safe. This way values are maintained, habits are kept and shortcomings are ignored. So, the irony is that they don't look out for you but for themselves.

Moreover, local powers work hard to safeguard their harmonious societies that are many around the nation, since they do not want Ms. Lin from Guangdong to tell Mr. Chen from Sichuan that too much spicy food isn't good for you and that the standard Chinese isn't what Mr. Chen thinks it is. In such a manner, the government can tell its people that this is a big country with a lot of people and a long history. Interestingly enough, the controlling system appears the best to keep peace in localities where people may notice the huge gaps in all walks of life.

Conclusively, the mixing of locals with locals from other places and the combination of foreigners with Chinese does not bode well for the leadership's future which is why the tight regulations are in effect around. Whether there are better places than the prejudicial Chinese one isn't so easy to tell and it remains to be seen as we are killing our own free systems with inhumane attitudes.

I was never refused at any Chinese hotel when I lived over there, even cheaper ones. However, it is true that this "we want to protect foreigners" line is hogwash. The Chinese government wants to know where all Chinese are at all times. The same with foreigners in China. It is the same with marriage in China. Marriage is promoted in China become family units are easier to track and control. It has nothing to do with "morals" or "culture". Same in Vietnam. I notice that a demonstration AFL match between Port Adelaide and Gold Coast was held in Shanghai at the weekend. Incredibly, 1800 police and security personel were in attendance. Alcohol was also banned inside the stadium, although Aussies outside the stadium were drinking beer. I wonder why foreigners still want to live in shit countries like China and Vietnam. There are much better places in Asia.

I was never refused at any Chinese hotel when I lived over there, even cheaper ones. However, it is true that this "we want to protect foreigners" line is hogwash. The Chinese government wants to know where all Chinese are at all times. The same with foreigners in China. It is the same with marriage in China. Marriage is promoted in China become family units are easier to track and control. It has nothing to do with "morals" or "culture". Same in Vietnam. I notice that a demonstration AFL match between Port Adelaide and Gold Coast was held in Shanghai at the weekend. Incredibly, 1800 police and security personel were in attendance. Alcohol was also banned inside the stadium, although Aussies outside the stadium were drinking beer. I wonder why foreigners still want to live in shit countries like China and Vietnam. There are much better places in Asia.

There are hotels around China and in Beijing that discriminate against all people from abroad. The former South African apartheid has not given rights to blacks and perhaps some other racial groups but looked at some foreigners more favorably than the current Chinese system which segregates all foreigners from locals.

Now, however my wife and children who are Chinese are permitted to make reservations and stay at some lower priced hotels in Beijing, they cannot choose to do so for me. All of us are forced to book a room in a hotel that accepts foreigners as well. The Chinese kids with foreign parents are not only to learn from their local books about Nelson Mandela or Martin Luther King but also from the consequences of multiculturalism.

The Peoples Republic of China seems to be an apartheid of its own that is well internationally accepted unlike the one of the old South African leader Botha. Being prejudiced against a few racial groups based on color or culture is despicable, against all across the borders shocking and worth noticing by all the international bodies.