I am here to find my soul mate and wife. If I fail here than next year I am moving to Thailand or the Phillipines.
I finally think I have found the right one, so hopefully this time I can marry her and stay in China.

This seems rather sad to me, and I would consider anyone travelling somewhere just to meet a wife to be sad. There are no women in your home country? If you meet someone when you are here, that's one thing. However for that to be your main goal in coming here seems desperate and rather sad. Why on earth would someone come to China with the "purpose" of meeting their future wife? If it happens it happens, but generally speaking when you try to fabricate such things they end up being just that, fabricated, not not of much substance.

You can choose to travel to where ever with the hope that you'll meet a wife, but you're likely to end up being very disappointed in what you find. Such an effort is quite fake seeming to me.