To find "Miss Right" can be difficult

Amen to that! And then when you have found her, bear in mind all the "obligations baggage", dating and marrying a Chinese girl in China, carries along with it. After you win over her, you have to win over the approval of her best friend, her siblings, and her spa beautician, and being able to keep her own personal bank savings in the positive.

good luck is all I can say mate!