It's ok mate, I am glad for your care!

We all need a pal in these times, If I was in Nanning we could have a few beers and a few bbqed eggplants, look at the curvy women, and put the world to rights.

You have been in China the same amount of time, you are experienced, and more mature than I am, and no, 41, is not old.

I am glad to meet like minded fellows on these boards, reminds me of how great China can be, despite all the lows!