Ulterior motives? It's apparent you distrust her!
Of course, you also have ulterior motives, especially whenever you post negatively on this forum, which is the norm for you. Any positive stuff from you is scarce indeed. So, I think you should divulge YOUR ulterior motives. But of course you won't do so. Given all the negative postings you have made, I find it hard to believe you'll still be in China a few years on!