I am looking at Thailand ( not Bangkok )

I would agree. Bangkok is perhaps much like Chinese cities, too many GW's and too crowded. I wouldn't go there , even for a visit.

, Cambodia, or Vietnam. Thought of Philippines, but Philippine women are a BIG turn off, so Philippines is out for me.

Heard good things about both Cam and Viet. An aussie mate I used to know swore by Vietnam and that he loved it more than China, got to admit, the beaches and cold elephant beers are appealing. The phillipines? I would never ever visit that place, the actions of their womenfolk in HK/China are more than enough to warn me off them, they need to keep working hard and stop looking for a western man to milk a ton of money from....just my two cents.