As for the lack of knowledge when it comes to oral sex... The fact that the Chinese government/Traditional Chinese people seem to believe all forms of porn/discussion of sex to be harmful is ridiculous, a good sex life shared between a loving couple can lead to harmony in many other areas of their relationship. There are a few cultural issues that result in some not being big believers in sex for pleasure, but I choose not to respect such outdated views of the world.

Yeah, porn can have a bad effect on teenagers, but you'd be surprised at how people can learn stuff from porn in teens from porn in order to satisfy their partners later in life. It can probably mean that young backpackers that arrive in China will find it far easier to satisfy a woman than an older local guy, even if they were still virgins not so long ago.

The fact that the Chinese media won't even permit as much as sexy dance from a popstar at times seems to have quite a negative effect. When it is often the case that even some hookers don't quite know what to do in bed properly, you know that something is wrong in society.

Anyway, I'm a very strong believer in sex before marriage. Try before you buy. Buy a ring, house and car that is. Sorry about that. I accept that some people may not quite agree with me due to their religious beliefs, but surely even they must agree that being a little adventurous in the bedroom can't be a bad thing as long as both partners are faithful to each other, right?

I also hope that nobody thinks that these comments are just macho boasting either about the superiority of a western guy's sexual prowess or penis size, there are actually statistics out there to suggest that ridiculously low amounts of Chinese women have ever experienced orgasms, I actually don't want it to be the case that I have to teach Chinese women stuff when I sleep with them. There was even one girl that incorrectly though that I had impregnated her when I came, not realising that I was using protection for a reason, lol. The fact that it seems apparent that her previous partners had never used any protection when sleeping with her, thus her probably not understanding about the use of contraception or the threat of STDs seems quite worrying too.

Chinese guys should be able to learn more and satisfy their partners, as I believe that everybody has the right to a good sex life.