I have read about marriage in China a few times on the net. Nothing involving govt regs is ever too easy to accomplish in China, as in most countries, always a lot of red tape. Just read about it on the net; google for instance. Just type in marriage in China and you will get extensive info.From my recollection, it is easier to be done in Hong Kong, but you will find all that info on the net as well.

Thank you SB and John. Marriage idea is a consideration, thanks. Yes, I do know it is illegal and that is why I am asking for advice here. It just seems that many are doing it and getting away with it, so I wanted to know their exp and how risky they felt it was. And John I completely understand what you have said as well; good advice.