David
- 2014-08-18
The opinion of her parents is very important
When you marry her, you marry her whole family.
mc
- 2014-08-18
At the beginning of a relation/marriage chinese woman are quiet, obedient and innocent.
They both had unrealistic expectations.
Bob
- 2014-08-18
Parent demands. At the end her family always have the last word.
David
- 2014-08-18
Chinese women were born to transform men and control them in everything.
truester
- 2014-08-18
The guy has to be very direct and quick for this option:
b)invite her to the most expensive restaurant in town, buy
her gifts..don't show insecurity, fear of failure, penny pinching, inferiority
complexes, don't insult her intelligence. If you are getting nothing back, move on
quickly (invest max 5 dates at 200 dollars each including gifts).
yin
- 2014-08-18
At the beginning of a relation/marriage chinese woman are quiet, obedient and innocent. Once she established herself she would change slowly into the real "controlling boss". The opinion of her parents is very important - and she will not hesitate to dump you if you not longer have her respect. She'd let her mother give you the bad news.
tan
- 2014-08-18
every wife in china is the CFO of the house. if hubby get access to money, then he can afford hookers or 2nd wife, no any stupid wife will let hubby to get access to money, just the basic allowance.
Bob
- 2014-08-17
Lots of this has to do with the crazy race in China to get rich. It seems these days everybody want to be rich in China.
Bob
- 2014-08-17
Chinese students in the US today are increasingly splurging on a lavish lifestyle and the reasons range from impressing girls to being the center of attention. Hao Xijia reports.
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/bizchina/2011-10/18/content_13922216.htm
John O’ Shei
- 2014-08-17
Just try. If she says no, try asking a different woman. More will say ‘yes’ than may initially think.
Jesus Christ man, getting laid almost anywhere in the world isn’t exactly rocket science even if you aren’t considered to be that attractive!
Not to mention that prettiest women tend to be crap in bed compared to the relatively average ones.
All of what I wrote could probably apply to women seeking a man too.
This board could do with a few more articles about teaching and a few less that make us all look like a bunch of perverted, desperate old sex-tourists.
First ask yourself:
What do you want from the girl?
a)long-term relationship b)a quick-romance and c)just a friend (JAF).
If you want a)invite her to a movie, a walk on the beach, meet her most important thing: her FAMILY.
If you're in a rush looking for b)invite her to the most expensive restaurant in town, buy her gifts..don't show insecurity, fear of failure, penny pinching, inferiority complexes, don't insult her intelligence. If you are getting nothing back, move on quickly (invest max 5 dates at 200 dollars each including gifts). And if you only want JAF c)set up a Skype account and teach her and her friends English-free..expect nothing back from JAF!.
Note: Every person is different.
Guy in the picture selected a).
Good luck!
