"Patriarchy" is a cultural and also a socio-historical phenomenon in nature associated with certain mental attitudes on the part of men and women as well. I am not so sure as to whether that picture that you paint of men in general is correct and not only a projection of your ideological bias towards men.

We don't need any feminism of the kind that you suggest but equal rights for men and women guaranteed by the constitution and their implementation in daily life.

Historically, feminists are mere talkers - with a few of notable exceptions. And in general, they do not tend to change the world to the better.

You must also have a perspective on how the continuance of patriarchy will benefit our world of the future.