Dude this is China, the land of lies and pretense. I have had enough one night stands with so-called traditional girls to know that.

I mean seriously, everything people do or say in China is distorted reality. Just look at how fake people are in their behavior and in their interactions with each others, even more so with Foreigners. Fake kindness from the girls, fake toughness from the dudes, this is China.

Do not ever assume that stuff people say or do in China is true, including how their present themselves.