It's mainly about a man's genes and his testosterone levels! There are men who have never kissed a woman nor dated one. They tremble when they have to dance with a woman during a social gathering as that is expected of them. My first wife thought that my best fishing buddy was gay. No way, I told her - he was not interested in any kind of intimate contact with men nor women. And he wasn't a pedo nor a ladyboy. I doubt he's ever chugged himself off! However, he did come across as somewhat effeminate, though. There must be similar traits to be observed re women and hormone levels. So many posters on this board come across as very naive re a lot of wot I have said above. Or else they are trying to deceive us by feigning their ignorance. Probably the latter. Pathetic, really!

PS, I thought that guy's bro was effeminate too, but he had a wife and kids. He happened to work in HK. I met him in Scotland once during one festive season in the mid 80s. His wife was Chinese, I saw her photo, she was average-looking, as was he. He was an architect in HK. He drove a Jaguar at the time. He was VERY RICH compared to the braggarts and pretenders on this forum.