Fool, twenty years ago ( 1995) I was in Australia working as a carpenter and had a Philippine GF. In 1999 I married a girl from Thailand and separated in 2007 and divorced in 2009. So [edited], hardly "searching in China for twenty years". [edited]

I don't think I like your tone, young man! hahaha. Don't nitpick over small points. Let's just say donkeys years, shall we? Please go into your Thai wife marriage in a little detail so I can better advise you. [edited]