s she your first child? (I am not after any private/identity info, here - but feel totally free not to answer)

Oh, I'm not concerned with that. I have an ex-wife who is on friendly terms with current wife. Also a grown up son and daughter, and we are all on good terms. Baby sister has been well accepted.

Her birthday party on Sunday. She even has a violinist friend coming to play for her. She likes good music but is sometimes in bad taste- she was bobbing up and down to this gay little Chopin tune the other day hahaha! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=30OIz2t7h9s

She has never heard pop music. Well only accidentally - we don't watch TV. Wife does though but only Chinese streaming video.