If he really thought of me as what he thinks what a "westerner" should be he would not have responded to me the way he did under the "girondale" moniker. Both the girondales and the yufas of this world spend most of their energy denying the fact that they are being racists to themselves. It doesn't matter whether they show this by criticizing or protecting what they think china or chinese culture is. At the end of the day they are 2 Moral Relativists with no real solutions.

As you can see John...some people only pretend to be against each other. But when someone with a view that could lower the value of both their viewpoints they start agreeing with each other faster than you can snap your fingers.

I do understand that people make mistakes, saying things like "where are you originally from..." or they will say things to me like "no offense" if they make a tongue in cheek ethnic joke but profile me instinctively when they see me because they don't want to sound offensive. But things like that are on a totally different level than exposing my personal info to someone I do not like, then lying to me about it. It seems as if certain Christians on this forum have no trouble rationalizing the performance of unethical moral standards, so as long as they are carried out against others who do not share the same belief systems as them. I can only say thank you for being consistent with your ideas and for not always trying to dominate the conversation. That is something plenty of people who are older can sure learn!