Something like the 'nice guy' in the West - I'm sometimes surprised to meet sweetheart single gals in China. One of the girls I know is cute, gigantic boobs, money, is not the brightest start BUT then again she might be because she constantly takes courses, works, learned to drive, etc. Total doll. Zero spite in her. Still single and virginal at 26. I wonder if its their version of 'nice Guys' I dunno?