i weigh just a few kg less than a hundred kgs.
six months ago i married a chinese excellent man who is 19 years younger than me, and weighs about half my weight.
we are now in my country, and we are doing very very well. much better than could be expected.
he would like me to loose weight, and so would i.
but he is totaly devoted to me, and this is true love.
i know him for six years, and it was in no means a flimsical decition.
i don't want to paint the reality pink, but it seems either i was extremely lucky or persistence and a decition to live my life despite my weight was the way to go.