Well there are people who have good experiences. That should be said. And like anything in life people might complain about the bad experiences or 'downs' but that doesn't mean they aren't having 'ups' and good times too.

I'd suggest that being married.. and i mean anyone who is married to anyone of any culture... its just marriage thats a drag. Its an added responsibility. Its an added 'downer' for men. Its just an added burden and then again there are 'ups' to that too. Its not all bad all the time either.