Being an FT whose life has been turned upside down by
these greedy she devils

The academics that you refer to would probably like to have you 'hung, drawn and quartered' for such a 'misogynistic' comment as that. lol

What women fail to understand is that it may take a lot of years for men to get to know what they are all like, but most of us do get there in the end!

'Sex tourists' are berated for paying for sex, but at least they 'pay-as-they-go'. For the rest of us, we end up paying a huge bill for sex when a 25-year marriage comes to an end and we walk away with nothing. The sad fact is that the 25 years of sex was probably pretty boring anyway.

At least the 'pay-as-you-go' guys get to choose with whom they have sex, and if she doesn't know her way around the bedroom then there's no second chance for her.

Those guys are also not expected to 'kiss-and-cuddle' afterwards!

'Renting' instead of 'buying' is a far better way to go, and costs about the same - I just wish I had taken my own advice long ago, lol