No, the days of the queens english are long gone,

Ah...the days when 'gay' meant 'happy' and 'wicked' meant 'evil'........
The days when 'nincompoop' was a swear word and your father wouldn't have used the 'F-word' if aliens had landed on the roof of your house.

In 1528 Britain, a monk wrote in his diary, and I quote, 'Fucking Abbot, D--- him!'
It seems that he was angry enough to use the 'F-word', yet still could not bring himself to write the word 'Damn'.

It's called 'evolution', mate. All languages change and evolve. Your grandfather should stop his grave-spinning and just roll another 'doby'.